The Complexity Of Identity By Beverly Daniel Tatum

Why do so many people consider gender and sex to be the same? Society has forced people to believe that there are two forms of identity, which are male or female. A person’s upbringing can have drastic affect on his or her perception about gender and identity. As stated in the â€Å"Complexity of Identity† by Beverly Daniel Tatum, a person has multiple identities ranging from gender to ethnicity. For example, I am brought in very orthodox Hindu family. My family is very conservative, which is why they tried to make me into a traditional â€Å"Indian girl†. When I was two and half years old, I came to America and it was very different from India, especially for my parents. It was a huge cultural shock for them because they never experienced women being so open-minded. Even though my parents knew that females in America are more outspoken, they still tried to impose feminine values on me. For instance, before I would go to school, my mom would comb my thick, black hair and tie it into two ponytails. Not only did she always tie my hair but she also made me wear dresses, even though I resisted multiple times. Over time I got into the habit of my mom dressing me up for school; however, I now realize that was not someone whom I wanted to be. I did not want to wear dresses, I did not want always want to tie my hair and I did not always wanted to be constantly reminded that I had to act like a girl. I was always under the impression that I should always act like a girl to be considered aShow MoreRelatedThe Problem Of High School1370 Words   |  6 Pagesout false conceptions, however, it is very unfortunate that it is not taught until one’s young adult years because that is when distorted information is already drilled into their brain. ADW concepts being taught in high school such as issues of identity; the intersection of race, gender, and social class; displacement, and conditions of servitude could only lead to the enrichment of the in quiring minds of this generation, allow them to see relatable circumstances, and help diminish their ignoranceRead MoreBeverly Daniel Tatum Ph.D. Is An Expert On Race Relations1258 Words   |  6 PagesBeverly Daniel Tatum PH.D. is an expert on race relations and the development of racial identity. Tatum guides her readers through racial identity and major ideas and concepts regarding race. Throughout the book readers will better understand the racial dynamic of their everyday lives, along with suggestive actions toward a more equitable world for all. The following paragraph gives a summary of the book, breaking it down into the IV parts containing ten chapters. Part I A Definition of Terms:Read MoreThe General Business 365 : Lead Course1225 Words   |  5 Pagesdiscussion in the General Business 365: LEAD course on identity and readings, I have become more aware of identity, what it means, my identity, others’ identities, and how identity affects our daily lives. Beverly Daniel Tatum, writer of â€Å"The Complexity of Identity: Who Am I?† says, â€Å"The concept of identity is a complex one, shaped by individual characteristics, family dynamics, historical factors, and social and political contexts.† In other words, identity is shaped by who we are and from our experiencesRead MoreRacial Discrimination Against Black People1840 Words   |  8 Pagestoday, it sounds almost shocking that such a democratic society has the social problem of racial discrimination against minorities, especially the black. Speaking about the historical context of racism in the U.S. society against the blacks, Beverly Daniel Tatum says â€Å"The impact of racism begins early† (par. 2). Despite all the technological advancement, political stability, and economic progress, the racial discrimination in the US society against black people appears to be a problem of daily life